Being careful when it comes to choosing friends.

How many have you got? Does it matter to you? To be honest when it comes to choosing friends you gotta be careful.I'm not saying this to put you off or anything but to warn you. The thing is with friends you can never have to many; like a pair of shoes right? What I've noticed though is that when you are in a group of friends lets say 4-7 what usually happens is everyone talks about each other, but they don't know. For instance, one time it was me and two other girls form my group and they started talking about one of my closest friends , who is also in the group. They said stuff like 'she's weird', 'she's immature' and 'she's an attention-seeker', at first I just nodded and agreed but then I realized 'Yo no-one talks about her like that' so I just stopped, but the only thing I found irritating was the way they acted all normal with her afterwards , that kinda upset me. The thing is you don't want to feel like a snitch when you tell them, so you just shut up- that ain't no good to anybody. I'd rather have one special friend that I will love my heart out with, instead of 50,000 friends who are all fake and backstabbers. Don't get me wrong , I love my girls but sometimes they just need to think before they say anything- think before you act! I'm sure one day they might be treated the same way and stop right? To be honest I don't really talk that much about people like I used to, because whats the point? All you're getting is trouble and someone being upset or angry with you. So just think wisely who you can call a true friend.

Being nice.

Being respectful is like a duty for me. I know sometimes I can be quiet rude when I try to prove my point, despite the fact that I HATE being wrong. But I understand that if you want to gain respect you need give respect. I get told that all the time and sometimes it annoys me cos I try to understand but I then I don't?Haha, weird I know.. Well, to me it basically means be nice and you'll be treated nice; which is true despite the fact that I don't have any haters or whatsoever. Simply because I'm nice. I tend to avoid people who like to start trouble 'just for fun', because those people are just time wasters and right now there's no time or space for 'em. People always tell me ' your so nice', and it makes me feel really happy cos I know I must be doing something right, and I am that's why I do not have any haters, and why hate anyway? Just because someone is more succesful than you or better? Truth is , hatred is jealousy and jealousy is a good thing. Why? Because it means someone out there really likes the way you look or the way you are and they want it and they know they can't; so they become jealous, try to bring you down (which will never happen) and then to haters.My advice to you is keep going, keep doing what you do, keep being the person you are and let them haters hate and be jealous, because jealousy is respect.

Being Different

This is probably going to be one of my favourite blog posts 'being different'. It can mean a lot to a person or maybe not. There is this quote I know but I'm not sure who it's by, it says ' While you're busy tryna fit in, Ima stand out' . I just love this quote and I use it a lot on  pictures and blogs because it's very inspirational and important. It seems most people just want to fit in with the 'popular crowd' becasue of reputation, or people want to look like everyone else because they are afraid to stand out,  but why? Isn't it awesome that you are different and you do look different? Just because someone can rock those skinny jeans or those sneakers doesn't mean you have to; you need to find something that makes you, you( If that makes sense..). I don't think I'm different, I know I'm different and I get that a lot . I wear different things than everyone , I have a completely different style compared to some girls my age; but it looks good;). So what could you do to be different? There is so much you can do start by the way you dress, look at people your age and compare yourself with them and if you can see a difference that's good if not maybe you should start standing out and be yourself and not be afraid to! Sometimes when I go to London, I see sooo many different people and you can tell straight away just by looking at them, that they don't care what people think of them and I just feel like clapping for them! So I'm quiet happy to be writing this post today , and I hope I have inspired some of you to be yourself and not be afraid to:)!

Being Grateful

Today I was home alone, well with my big brother, and I watched  a Documentary called 'Nicki Minaj-  My time now', for the third time, but this time I really watched and I was really getting into it,especially the part when she takes her whole family out shopping and spends so much money on them , and says ' get whatever you want'. It just inspires me to do something so that one day I may appreciate them for real, because they always say they love me and I know it but you just want to do something for them ,to thank them. I have everything  I need . I got a nice house, a great family, I'm different and Then again, I am grateful for everything but I need to do something with my life and use what I got to get to the fame , because we don't actually live forever..So I'm just going to use what I have to get to what I don't have and it will pay off in time :)

Being thoughtful.(on the bus)

Okay, so yesterday after a long day of being me and science revision class after school , I took my usual doubledecker bus home. It was soo quiet upstairs. It was literally me and the floortiles, so I started dreaming...
Just dreaming about me and my future, since I'm sooo old (I'm fifteen by the way). I just thought about what I actually want to be when I 'm older, because it's easy to say to someone ' what will you be when you're older?' especially to little children cos they'll just look at you with their big wandering eyes and they usually say stuff like ' astronaut' or ' fireman', but the most common one for girls is 'a princess', I gotta admit though I wanted to be an elephant..Please do not ask why. So anyways it actually gets harder when you get older because it hits you like 'woah I actually need to start thinking about this stuff' , cos sadly you can't really say 'when I'm older I wanna be..' because if you're my age you're already getting older and you need to start to think about NOW not THEN, this is so amazingly important to me, cos I'm not going to be the person sitting on  the edge of the streets with my toes peeking through my shoes and begging for a 'little change'. People don't actually have time to stop everyday and give you 'a little change', maybe there's a few people out there..but I will never ever become homelesss because I know that I've been given a precious Life that shouldn't be wasted ,and I'm going to use what I got now to take me to where I want to be. 'Believe ,Achieve.

OHMYLiFE's very first blog; woohoooo!

Okay, okay so this is my first ever blog called' OHMYLiFE, which will be about the truth, how I deal with life and everyday issues. I'm pretty excited because it feels like I'm writing to my diary or talking to myself  and I'm so grateful to whoever invented the idea of 'blogs' ,because you can talk about absolutely anything, yes anything and everything.  In this blog I'm just going to say what's on my mind and what I feel about the topics I discuss . Everything I say will be real and I believe that I do talk the truth. I've been through alot of situations and tough decisions, and I learned to deal with it as it is, that's why I like the quote' when life gives you lemons make lemonade' it might sound cheesy but it actually makes sense and I think about that quiet a lot. Life gives me problems and I give it solutions. Throughout this blog you might or might not  like what I write but that's okay with me, because ima still write anyway :)!
Okay, So I will try to write everyday, cos I see this blog as a Diary and diaries are for everyday use right?
So that's it for now; dont worry I'll be writing way more than than this guys!

Adios, Amigos!