Being careful when it comes to choosing friends.

How many have you got? Does it matter to you? To be honest when it comes to choosing friends you gotta be careful.I'm not saying this to put you off or anything but to warn you. The thing is with friends you can never have to many; like a pair of shoes right? What I've noticed though is that when you are in a group of friends lets say 4-7 what usually happens is everyone talks about each other, but they don't know. For instance, one time it was me and two other girls form my group and they started talking about one of my closest friends , who is also in the group. They said stuff like 'she's weird', 'she's immature' and 'she's an attention-seeker', at first I just nodded and agreed but then I realized 'Yo no-one talks about her like that' so I just stopped, but the only thing I found irritating was the way they acted all normal with her afterwards , that kinda upset me. The thing is you don't want to feel like a snitch when you tell them, so you just shut up- that ain't no good to anybody. I'd rather have one special friend that I will love my heart out with, instead of 50,000 friends who are all fake and backstabbers. Don't get me wrong , I love my girls but sometimes they just need to think before they say anything- think before you act! I'm sure one day they might be treated the same way and stop right? To be honest I don't really talk that much about people like I used to, because whats the point? All you're getting is trouble and someone being upset or angry with you. So just think wisely who you can call a true friend.

Being nice.

Being respectful is like a duty for me. I know sometimes I can be quiet rude when I try to prove my point, despite the fact that I HATE being wrong. But I understand that if you want to gain respect you need give respect. I get told that all the time and sometimes it annoys me cos I try to understand but I then I don't?Haha, weird I know.. Well, to me it basically means be nice and you'll be treated nice; which is true despite the fact that I don't have any haters or whatsoever. Simply because I'm nice. I tend to avoid people who like to start trouble 'just for fun', because those people are just time wasters and right now there's no time or space for 'em. People always tell me ' your so nice', and it makes me feel really happy cos I know I must be doing something right, and I am that's why I do not have any haters, and why hate anyway? Just because someone is more succesful than you or better? Truth is , hatred is jealousy and jealousy is a good thing. Why? Because it means someone out there really likes the way you look or the way you are and they want it and they know they can't; so they become jealous, try to bring you down (which will never happen) and then to haters.My advice to you is keep going, keep doing what you do, keep being the person you are and let them haters hate and be jealous, because jealousy is respect.